For the midlife woman who is ready to stop self-abandoning and start to honour herself with boundaries, true identity and a joyful life that feels like herself!
You wake up tired.
Not because you don’t sleep…
…but because you’ve been carrying
everyone else’s life on your shoulders.
You’ve been the caretaker.
The responsible one.
The strong one.
The “I’ll handle it” one.
And somewhere along the way, you lost yourself.
You’ve been giving until you’re empty,
saying yes when you want to scream no,
shrinking to keep the peace,
and abandoning yourself in tiny, quiet ways that nobody sees.
(But you feel them.)
Your soul is craving peace, clarity, joy, and truth.
You’re craving a life that feels like you — not the version of you shaped by roles, expectations, and survival mode.
✨ To honour yourself
✨ To trust yourself
✨ To live under your own terms
✨ To feel at home in your own body and life
✨ To wake up feeling grounded, alive, and sovereign
And this is exactly what I’m here to guide you into.

Midlife isn’t a crisis,
It’s the moment you stop betraying yourself and start reclaiming your truth.
This is your season of homecoming, where your boundaries protect you, your identity rises, and your life becomes aligned with the woman you’re remembering to be.
Kena Siu is the Boundaries & Empowerment Guide behind the brand & podcast Midlife Butterfly. She specializes in guiding women through life's most challenging transitions—divorce, loss, reinvention, and soul awakening—using trauma-informed coaching that combines meditation, different coaching modalities, somatic awareness, and what she calls 'radical self-love.' Her own journey through multiple countries, languages, marriages, and profound losses led her to create a movement for women who are ready to drop the people-pleasing, heal old patterns, and build lives of freedom and authentic purpose. She describes herself as living in the 'sacred in-between', that transformative space where we're no longer who we once were, but not quite who we're becoming yet. She supports women to embrace their inner Midlife Butterfly and create a life they're truly joyful living.


Thank you, Kena. For being the guide to show me I am in charge of my life and empowering me to make enormous changes! I'm setting goals, I know my worth, and I am determined to be the best Allison I can be.
You've guided me towards choosing to be a better person and journaling and gratitude, and I'm doing things I would never have thought possible before!
Thank you so much for arriving exactly when I was ready to listen to you!

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